A National Research Report:

What Principals Would Tell Parents to Help Parents Help Their Children

Here's what elementary and secondary principals said when asked what they would tell parents, "If they could tell parents just one thing to help them help their children":

1. Take time to talk with your children, and listen to what they have to say. (Overwhelmingly #1)
   • Dept. of Ed. study: Average American mother spends less than 30 minutes a day talking to her children. Average American father—15 minutes.
   • Talk when your child comes home from school.
   • Make a point to talk 1:1 with each child, not always just group talk.
   • Talk, sing, laugh, read, listen with your children.
2. Take an active interest in your child and what he or she is doing in school--and monitor their progress.

   Don't just ask, "What did you do in school today?" Ask questions like, "How are you doing?" "What are your latest test grades?" "Do you feel you are achieving?" "What was the most interesting thing you did today?" "What did you do best today?" "What is coming up tomorrow?"

3. Let your children know you love them. Take the time to show that you care.

From a study by Dr. John H. Wherry, President of The Parent Institute. This handout may be reproduced for non-commercial professional use if this credit message is included.

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